Friday, February 8, 2013

Why Free to Fly?


So now that you know a little about me and why I have started this blog, let me tell you why I named it Free to Fly.

After losing my baby boy, I decided that I wanted to get a tattoo to honor him. (Yes, I realize some people don’t understand this, but I try to live my life as my own and not based on what others think.) I had a tattoo of a cross placed on my left foot when I lost my grandmother.  It is something that I always will treasure and feel connected to her with. 

After thinking about it and discussing it with my husband, we went to a local tattoo artist.  I promised my husband, “we are just going to talk to him; I won’t do it today.” (We both realized this is something I would live with for the rest of my life.) He of course, knew I was going to be going home with a new tattoo that day.  Even I know, sometimes I can be rather hard-headed when I set my mind to do something.

 After talking with the artist, we decided that what I wanted originally was not going to work the way I wanted. So after, I’ll be honest not a lot of consideration, I decided on a Sailor Jerry Swallow.  I had it placed on my left wrist.  I left with my new tattoo and have never for one second regretted my somewhat spur-of-the-moment decision to get a swallow.    

And that is how Free to Fly was born.  My sweet baby boy received his wings and is flying with the most high!  I have my tattoo as a memory that, yes I had to let him go, but he is flying free and all I can do is give him to God.

With Much Love & Thanks,

~Free to Fly~

2 comments:

  1. I truly admire you and the courage you have, and I know that this wonderful blog that you are doing is very necessary for the healing process and know that your word will touch and help others who may have suffered the same type of loss. My prayers are with you!

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